What a Knight

We are pretty proud of Tyler right now (and he’s pretty proud of himself, too).

There are about 120 kids in Year 5 at his school, and all of them are involved in the Year 5 production (in some way, shape or form). Tyler has a small speaking role, which he was very excited to get. The show is called “What a Knight” and the kids have been working really hard on their lines, songs, costumes, props and stage sets. There’s just under a month until the performances.

ALL the kids in year 5 had to design a logo, and the best would be chosen to put on the front of the official production T-shirt. The shirts will be worn by all the kids in the chorus (and backstage, I think). Other kids can also buy a T-shirt as a memento.

Today the winner of the “design a logo” was announced … and it was Tyler! He had been told by a teacher that he was probably going to win, which actually annoyed me a little bit because I didn’t want him to get his hopes up in case it wasn’t him (but at the same time I didn’t want to discourage him or dampen his enthusiasm and excitement). But it WAS him, and he is very, very, very happy!

Here’s the winning design:


I’m sure it will be ‘tweaked’ a little before it gets put on the T-shirt, so I’ll be sure to share a photo of the finished product once it’s ready. I was tempted to buy an extra one since Tyler’s design is on it, but one will just have to do (and he’ll have to look after it).

Proud mama, signing off.

Love your life

I write 3 posts in 3 days and then nothing for 2 weeks? That’s probably the new normal on this blog of mine.

Lately I have been thinking about a LOT of things. Family, priorities, contentment, happiness. Over the past couple of weeks I’ve read quite a few articles and quotes about finding happiness, challenging yourself, not letting anything stand in the way of your dreams.

I think having goals is a good thing. On a personal level, I thrive on having goals, targets and deadlines in my work environment. I guess I also do in other areas of my life, but not to the same extent.

Some people probably look at me and think I’m a boring person. I never did an OE, I never went flatting, I’ve only lived in 2 houses my whole life (this is the second!) and I’ve been working at the same company for 15 years. You could be forgiven for thinking that I don’t have ambitions, that I don’t like change, that I’m scared to try new things. People may look at my life and think that I have compromised or given up on my dreams, or that I’m living in a rut. That I couldn’t possibly be content or happy.

But guess what? I am. I am content and happy with my simple life, and I like it just the way it is! I feel beyond blessed to be married to an incredible man, and to be Mum to two of the most incredible human beings in the world. What a huge privilege! I love my job, I love my family, I love my friends, I love my country/city/neighbourhood, I love my church. I am fulfilled, content, satisfied.

This is not to say that I don’t have struggles. My life is not perfect by any stretch of the imagination. Sometimes I do feel unhappy. There are still things I would like to do in the future (travel being one of them). If I could go back in time, I wouldn’t actually change anything. I think my previous battles with depression and anxiety have taught me much more than I would have learned otherwise, and those lessons have been invaluable. They have helped me to appreciate the good times more, to count my blessings and to make a conscious effort to find silver linings.

I honestly don’t feel that I’ve ‘settled’ by choosing the life I have. Yes, I got married young and had children relatively young. Yes, my family comes first and that means I don’t necessarily have the time, money or even desire to do other things that I could possibly do if I didn’t have those commitments. But I have my priorities and I won’t apologise for them. I wouldn’t trade it for the world. My choices have led me to the place I am, and I am glad to be in this place.

No matter what curve balls are thrown my way in the future, I would like to think that I will always remain grateful for the experiences, the lessons and the growth that will eventually come as a result. Life hasn’t always been and won’t always be easy, but I love mine. My simple life. Warts and all.

Birthday boy

I know what you’re thinking. I’ve been AWOL for ages, then I write 3 posts in 3 days? Yup, that’s how I roll, people!

Today is a special day. It is my husband’s birthday. He is 41 today.

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He is also AMAZING. Like, totes amazeballs. (I literally cringed as I typed those words).

I feel extremely blessed to have Rob in my life. We’ve been best friends for nearly 20 years, “together” for 17 of them, husband & wife for just over 15 of them, and parents for 12 of them. He’s been a big part of my life for more than half of it, which I think is completely awesome. That proportion will continue to grow over the coming years, and I am unbelievably excited about that. I don’t particularly want to grow old, but if I have to do it, then I “wanna grow old with you” (and by “you”, I mean him. Not you. Ahem).

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Anyway, today is Rob’s birthday and I tiptoed out of the house just after 6am this morning, leaving all 3 of my boys soundly sleeping. I did give Rob a hug before I left, but there’s a good chance it was “Sleep Me” I was hugging and that he possibly won’t remember it! On the kitchen bench, I left a container of baking (ginger crunch and cookies) for him to take to work for his birthday morning tea shout, and a wee note saying “Happy Birthday”.

I’ll see Rob when he gets home from work, around 5pm. We’ll eat dinner together as a family, but then he he has to go out. To Youth Group. To watch a movie with a bunch of teenagers. But that’s just the kind of guy he is. He puts others first, ALWAYS. I’m sure he’d rather be at home, celebrating his birthday with family & friends. But instead he’ll be hanging out with an awesome group of kids, being a big kid himself, and making sure they have a great time.

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Because there isn’t a lot of room for celebrating today, we’re going to do it tomorrow! After the boys’ soccer games, we are going to spend the afternoon at Parakai hot pools. Rob’s choice. My family and some of Rob’s family are going to join us. I’ll make his favourite cake tonight (Queen Date Cake) and take a bunch of snacks and drinks. We’ll swim and soak and slide, and celebrate Rob’s 41 years “on this planet” (to quote Ethan’s card). I’m looking forward to at least another 41 more years with Rob “on this planet”, followed by forever-and-eternity with him as well.

So. Happy Birthday, babe! I love doing life with you, sharing all the big and the small moments together. I reckon turning 41 is a big moment! I’m so happy that I get to share it with you, along with all the other moments. As my blog header says, “Life is about moments. Create them.” Let’s create heaps more of them, together!

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Mid-Year Report

Tyler received his mid-year report last Friday, and we had a parent/teacher interview the other night. He’s having a fantastic time in Year 5, doing well and enjoying everything about school. In the past I have documented the boys’ reports here on my blog, just in case I lose the originals. It’s important to me to keep this kind of stuff!

Above National Standards
Effort: A
Tyler reads fluently and accurately at an instructional level of 10.5-11.5 years (he is 9). At this level he is able to use important information to show understanding and find, select and retrieve information by reading quickly and skimming and scanning. Tyler is a capable reader who is able to research information for his topic studies.

Above National Standards
Effort: A
Tyler is able to tell an indepth story and use a variety of language features carefully chosen to enhance mood and imagery. He shows good understanding of the purpose for writing and identifies writing processes appropriate for those purposes. Tyler organises and plans his writing logically and into paragraphs.

At National Standards
Effort: A
Tyler is able to solve subtraction and division problems involving two digits. He is working on his addition and multiplication strategies. Tyler has a good working knowledge of the times tables and now needs to focus on speed. He can describe the properties of 3D shapes, using the terms faces, edges and corners.

Absorption (being able to lose yourself in learning, becoming absorbed in what you’re doing) – consistently
Managing Distractions (recognising and reducing distractions, creating your own best environment for learning) – consistently
Noticing (perceiving differences, patterns and details in your learning) – sometimes
Perseverance (keep going when things are difficult, positively facing your challenges, learning from your mistakes) – consistently

Tyler is an able student and displays great potential for continued progress in all areas. He has a positive attitude towards his learning and always tries his best. Tyler sets an excellent example of good behaviour and has a sensible attitude towards his work. He is a caring, understanding and supportive student who is a valuable and trustworthy member of our class. Tyler is a good friend to others and is a cheerful and willing helper in the classroom. It is a pleasure to have Tyler in B1 this year.

Ethan, being at college, doesn’t get a proper school report anymore. We received one A4 page which stated that he was Above National Standards in Reading, Writing and Maths. That’s it! But from talking with his teacher, I know that he is having a great year and doing really well.

We are really proud of them both. I think we shall take them to Fiji in a couple of months to celebrate. ;-)


Apologies, my friends. I realise I have been AWOL on this old blog of mine. Indeed, posting has been slow for the past couple of months. Not surprisingly, the reduction in blogging frequency has coincided with starting my new job (and the multitude of changes that came along with that). My motivation for blogging has also been waning. I think that’s because I write ALL DAY, and the writing I do now is much more involved than it used to be. When I get home from work, I don’t always feel like writing on here. Plus, I want to spend time with my family.

To be honest, I just don’t have as much time to blog as I used to. Two months ago, I had an extra 10 or so hours every week that I am now spending commuting. Hmm, perhaps I should try and write blog posts in the car? That would be doable when I’m a passenger, but possibly not the safest idea when I’m the driver. But I am a passenger every other week, as my sister and I carpool and take turns driving to/from work. Interesting. Maybe I’ll work a bit more on that idea!

In the meantime, I have zero motivation to come up with an exciting blog post. I have TONS of photos on my camera that I can’t be bothered downloading and editing. But I can share a few little snippets of recent life based on Instagram photos. So here goes …

Recently, I’ve made triple chocolate brownie, pumpkin soup and beer bread.



I bought buns for homemade burgers and they had holes in them!


I finally received the funky lunch bag I ordered back in June. Yay, no more lunches in plastic bags.


A bunch of teens and preteens from Ethan’s youth group came to our place for dessert as part of a progressive dinner, and I set up a “make your own banana split” station.


Ethan went to his first school holiday camp, and had a total blast!


I enjoyed a special coffee date with one of my boys. I really do love my one-on-one time with each of them.


I did a photo shoot with Ethan’s water polo team. They’re busy fundraising to go to the AIMS Games in Tauranga in September, and they entered a competition run by Anchor (hence the milk bottle props).


Next time I have the motivation to update my blog, I’ll try to set aside time to upload some recent photos from my proper camera, and maybe write a decent blog post to go with them! Until then, rest assured that I’m still alive and kicking, just not blogging much. Hopefully that will change, because I do miss it! Speaking of which, I must go and catch up on all the blogs I haven’t had time to read … there are only about 150 posts waiting for me on my feed reader!!

See ya.

Tuna Patties

Do you ever have those crazy/busy days when 5.30pm rolls around and you still have NO clue what you’re going to make for dinner? Not only that, you haven’t remembered to get any meat out of the freezer and you are faced with the prospect of eggs on toast unless you can think of something better at short notice. Maybe that doesn’t happen to you, but it happens to me, and on the off chance that it might happen to you in the future, I thought I’d share this recipe that I made up on one such night. Add some lettuce, quartered tomatoes and slices of capsicum and you have a very quick and easy meal. And they taste really good!

Tuna Patties

400g tinned tuna, drained
1 packet Uncle Ben’s Mexican Rice (we LOVE this flavour)
2 eggs, beaten
1/2 cup breadcrumbs
salt & pepper
parsley, chopped
1/4 cup mayonnaise
1/4 cup sweet chilli sauce

Cook the rice according to packet instructions (2 minutes in the microwave). Allow to cool.
Mix together tuna, rice, eggs, seasoning, parsley and breadcrumbs. Shape into balls and then flatten with the palm of your hand. Heat oil in a frying pan and cook patties on both sides until golden brown. Place on paper towels to absorb the excess oil.
Mix together mayonnaise and sweet chilli sauce. Serve with the tuna patties.

Makes 8 patties

Puzzle time!

So we just told the kids that we are going to Fiji by giving them this puzzle …


We’re not going until October, but just the thought that we will be on a tropical island sipping cocktails by the pool in a little over 3 months’ time may be the only thing that will get me through the rest of this miserable winter. We’re currently 4 days into a hideous winter storm, with gale force winds and constant rain. In the school holidays, no less. It’s only been a month since the last bad storm, and apparently there are more to come. NOT COOL.

But now there is this to look forward to. And oh my word, I am looking forward to it. I. CANNOT. WAIT. Fiji, baby!

Learning hero

At the start of this year, Tyler came home and announced that he had been chosen to be the very first “Learning Hero” of his class. A note came home explaining what was involved:

You have been selected to be our “Learning Hero” this week. This is quite an honour. During this week all the other students in the class will write a short description telling us what they like about you and what they think you are good at.
I would like you to bring in a number of your favourite things to share with the class on Friday. These might include:
*3 interesting facts about yourself
*favourite books
*best artwork
Good luck and congratulations on being chosen as our “Learning Hero”.
All of B1 looks forward to you sharing your favourite things.
Mrs O’Brien

He went along to school that week with his box of special/favourite things to share with the class.


The teacher made up a poster with Tyler’s photo in the middle, and all the notes from his classmates were stuck around the outside. The poster has been hanging on the wall in his classroom for the past few months, but today he brought it home. I decided to put it up on the wall in the kitchen for a little while.

His classmates described him as kind, friendly, funny, helpful, “absorbed in his work”, and 15 different variations of “GOOD AT SPORT”. Oh, and apparently somebody thinks his smile is “very beautiful”. I have to agree! :-)


Catching up

Last weekend I spent the whole day catching up with two lovely friends, Robyn & Juliette.

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We all started working together around the same time, 15 years ago. Juliette stayed for a few years, and Robyn for a bit longer. And I’m still there! There were a few others in our “gang” but the 3 of us have been the best at keeping in touch over the years. Both Robbie and Ju did stints overseas; in fact, Robbie’s is still going. She and her partner have just been living in Canada for 6 months, and prior to that they were in the UK. After spending some time in their home country, they’re heading to Japan for a few weeks, then back to the UK. And who knows where after that?!
Since Robbie was in the country, it was a good excuse for us to get together. I’d mentioned something to Robbie about wanting to do a wine tasting at a vineyard, and she was keen to do it with me. Ju was a willing participant, so the plans were made to head up to Matakana and check out the Farmers’ Market, before spending a few hours at Brick Bay Winery.

At the markets, Robbie tried her first ever whitebait fritter. I’ve had the ones from the markets before and they are so yummy. We weren’t sure if it was the right season, but then we saw the stand … it was meant to be. I also bought some yummy Gouda to take home and share with Rob, and some oh-so-fancy “doggie biscotti” for Buddy!

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When we arrived at the vineyard, we did a wine tasting. Brick Bay is a small, family-owned, boutique winery and at the moment they only produce 4 wines. One white (pinot gris) and 3 red. All very nice! After the wine tasting, we decided to do the Sculpture Trail that the winery is becoming well known for. We were told it would take about an hour, but that some people did it in 30 minutes. It took us 1 1/2 hours! But that’s because we actually stopped at each sculpture to read the information in the guide, laugh/comment/admire … and in some places, take a few photos!

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All that walking in the beautiful sunshine had worked up an appetite, so we sat down to enjoy lunch at 2pm. We ordered a tasting platter — and more wine — and followed up with dessert and coffee/hot chocolate.
It was such a lovely way to spend a sunny winter’s Saturday. Catching up with friends, enjoying the sights, sounds and smells of our beautiful surroundings, sharing delicious food and good wine, talking and laughing, and just spending time together! :-)

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Last weekend my lovely Mum turned 60, and my sister Leah and I organised a “high tea” birthday celebration for her. Her favourite colour is lime green, so we went all out with the green decorations and even green food and drink! I made the invitations using all my green scraps of patterned paper! Each one is unique.

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It was a lovely opportunity for Leah and I to use our special china teacups from our Grandma, along with some of Mum’s special ones from her mother. We had all kinds of tea available, special coffees and hot chocolate. Leah made lime & pineapple punch, which was delicious! She also organised the candy bar, and everyone loved being able to take home a bag of treats.

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The food was served “high tea” style, on fancy tiered plates. All petite size — mini cupcakes, muffins and quiches, small sandwiches and slices. I even made some cute teabag shortbread biscuits, and we had fruit & marshmallow “cups” with toothpicks.

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Most of the party was spent chatting, eating and drinking, but I had also organised a few fun games. I made up a Word Find, with lots of words relating to Mum and her birthday! There was a quiz, and the questions related to some of Mum’s favourite things: chocolate, Scrabble, books, TV crime shows, The Beatles, soccer, rugby and good grammar! We also played “The Price is Right” where everyone had to guess the prices of all the things necessary to have “high tea” (teapot, cup & saucer, milk, sugar, tea bags, shortbread, tea tray, teaspoons, serviettes, etc). There were points on offer: 3 for the exact price, 2 for being under but closest, 1 for being under and 0 for being over! It was heaps of fun, and most people realised that they didn’t pay enough attention to how much things cost! ;-)

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Leah had also made a really cool playlist on her iPod, featuring all of Mum’s favourite music. We started the playlist while we were setting up, and it finished 4 hours later as we were packing up! Perfect.

Mum had a wonderful time catching up with special friends, and she received lots of beautiful gifts. Little Bonnie (age 4) helped her open her presents, which was so cute!

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The next day was Mum’s actual birthday, so we went out for lunch as a family. She needed a bit of help to blow out her candles (actually, she has been sick for the past 3 weeks so decided it was best if Rob & Ethan blew the candles out). We had a yummy lunch and played several rounds of “Chinese Whispers”, which resulted in so much laughing that our eyes were watering and our chests were actually hurting! Good times.

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